Responding to military reprimands or letters of censure
- Robert Shuck
- Feb 3
- 8 min read
Updated: Feb 4

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You just received notice that you will receive General Officer Memorandums of Reprimand (GOMORs), Letters of Reprimand (LORs), Administrative Letters of Censure
When responding to a written reprimand in the military—whatever your branch of service calls them General Officer Memorandums of Reprimand (GOMORs), Letters of Reprimand (LORs), or Administrative Letters of Censure — it is crucial to approach the situation with professionalism, clarity, and evidence-based reasoning. The principle of "Show me, don’t just tell me" underscores the importance of using concrete facts, supporting evidence, and references to military regulations to strengthen your case. Begin by thoroughly understanding the reprimand and its implications, then gather relevant documents, timelines, and witness statements to refute inaccuracies or provide context. Cite military laws and policies, such as the UCMJ or service-specific regulations, to highlight procedural errors or show fairness. Craft a respectful, well-structured response with an introduction, factual rebuttal, legal references, and a closing statement reaffirming your commitment to military values. If mitigating factors exist, present supporting evidence and then follow up to ensure a proper review of your response. Seeking legal advice from a military law expert can further enhance your rebuttal and protect your rights. By addressing the reprimand strategically, you can protect your career and show your dedication to duty and justice.
How to Respond to a Written Reprimand in the Military: Show Me, Don’t Just Tell Me
When faced with a written reprimand as an American service member, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. However, this is your opportunity to present your side of the story and protect your career. The key is to embrace the principle of "Show me, don’t just tell me"—using evidence, facts, and references to applicable regulations to respond effectively. This approach shows professionalism and significantly affects how others perceive your response.
When faced with a reprimand, many individuals throw together a memorandum like they're hastily patching up a leaky tent in a storm, hoping it will hold under scrutiny. They often rely on character references as if they’re calling in friendly air support to shield them. Still, they cannot dig into the trenches and challenge the factual or legal basis of the reprimand with solid evidence. This approach is like marching into battle without a map or ammunition—it may look like action, but it’s unlikely to achieve the mission. A carefully crafted response, backed by evidence, is a well-oiled rifle that ensures accuracy and precision in defending one’s position.
In this blog post, we will guide you through creating a better response to a written reprimand. We will emphasize the importance of using evidence and relevant laws and regulations to strengthen your case.
Step 1: Understand the Written Reprimand and Its Implications
Military personnel may receive a formal written reprimand, which is an administrative action and may be added to their personnel file. While it may not carry the immediate weight of legal action, it can negatively affect your career progression, promotion opportunities, and security clearances. If placed into your official military performance file (OMPF), it could lead to an administrative separation or a grade determination board.
Key Takeaway: Treating a written reprimand seriously is critical. Your response is your chance to correct the record, provide context, and show your commitment to the military’s values.
Step 2: Gather Facts and Evidence
The most effective way to refute or mitigate a written reprimand is by relying on **evidence** rather than emotions or unsupported claims. Remember, the principle here is to "show" your side of the story.
- Review the reprimand carefully: Identify the allegations or accusations and the specific incidents cited.
- Collect supporting evidence: Emails, memos, witness statements, photographs, training records, counseling statements, or performance reviews.
- Use timelines: If the reprimand involves alleged misconduct, create a detailed timeline of events to provide context and clarity.
Example: If accused of tardiness, provide documentation (e.g., sign-in logs or official schedules) showing your arrival times and any mitigating factors, such as delayed transportation.
Step 3: Reference Military Regulations and the Law
Military service members are held to standards outlined in laws, regulations, and policies, including the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) and service-specific regulations. Highlighting these rules in your response shows your knowledge of your responsibilities and rights.
- Cite relevant policies: If you believe the reprimand is unjust, reference specific sections of the UCMJ, DoD directives, or service branch regulations to support your case. For example:
- If the reprimand violates due process, you might reference Article 31(b) of the UCMJ, which protects service members from self-incrimination during investigations.
- If unclear guidance led to the reprimand, cite the applicable regulation to show how the instructions were ambiguous.
- Use the principle of fairness: The military justice system is built on fairness and evidence. Ensure your response aligns with this principle by explaining why the reprimand is inaccurate or overly harsh.
Example: If reprimanded for poor performance, you might refer to performance evaluation criteria in your branch’s regulations to show your actions met the acceptable standard.
Step 4: Craft a Professional and Respectful Response
Your written response should reflect your professionalism and respect for the chain of command. Even if you feel the reprimand is unfair, maintaining a respectful tone is crucial. Use the following structure:
1. Introduction: Bottom Line Up Front (BLUF): This summarizes your rebuttal and evidence for the decision-maker.
2. Factual rebuttal: Present evidence to refute inaccuracies or provide mitigating context. Add the evidence as enclosures.
3. Legal references: Cite relevant laws or regulations to strengthen your argument.
4. Closing statement: Reaffirm your commitment to military values and request a fair review of your response.
Pro tip: Adhere to Your Service’s Memorandum Format
When drafting your written response to a reprimand, ensure that it adheres to the specific formatting guidelines established by your military branch. Each service has its standards for memorandums, and failing to follow these guidelines can distract from the content of your response. Using the correct format not only demonstrates professionalism but also emphasizes your attention to detail, which can be beneficial in your defense. This helps keep the focus on the substance of your arguments rather than the presentation, ensuring a more compelling case.
Step 5: Highlight Mitigating Factors
If the reprimand is justified but extenuating circumstances exist, explain them clearly and provide supporting evidence. Mitigating factors may include:
- Personal or family emergencies.
- Lack of proper resources or training.
- Miscommunication within the chain of command.
Example: If reprimanded for failing to meet a deadline, explain how you requested additional resources but did not receive them, and provide a copy of your request as evidence.
Step 6: Submit Your Response and Follow-Up
Once your response is complete, submit it through the appropriate channels and ensure it is included in your official record. Follow up with your command to confirm receipt and inquire about the next steps.
Pro Tip: Requesting a personal appearance to present your case in person can be a powerful and effective strategy when responding to a written reprimand. This face-to-face interaction lets you convey your commitment, sincerity, and professionalism directly to your superiors, enabling them to see the genuine intent behind your defense. In-person presentations can create a more compelling narrative, as your tone, demeanor, and body language can reinforce your response’s seriousness and dedication to the military’s values. Additionally, this format allows for immediate clarification of any misunderstandings and provides an opportunity for dialogue, making it easier to address concerns in real-time. By taking this step, you demonstrate your willingness to confront the issue head-on and emphasize the importance of your career and reputation within the service, potentially swaying decision-makers in your favor.
Bonus Tip: Why Asking the Decision Maker for Guidance is Important After Receiving a Reprimand
After receiving a reprimand or punishment, asking the decision maker what you can do to convince them that you are salvageable and still committed to serving effectively in the military is a strategic and impactful approach. This initiative demonstrates accountability, humility, and a genuine desire to grow and improve. It shows that you are taking ownership of your actions and are actively seeking ways to rebuild trust and prove your value to the organization. Here’s why this step is particularly beneficial:
Shows Accountability and Maturity
By directly addressing the decision maker, you acknowledge the gravity of the situation and take responsibility for your actions. This signals a level of maturity and professionalism that leaders respect. It shows that you are not shirking responsibility but seeking constructive feedback to improve and move forward.
Opens the Door for Constructive Feedback
Decision makers often clearly understand what they need to see from you to restore confidence in your abilities and commitment. By asking for their guidance, you allow them to articulate specific steps or actions they believe would demonstrate your willingness to improve. This feedback can provide a roadmap, helping you focus on areas where you can make the most meaningful changes.
Demonstrates Commitment to Self-Improvement
When you ask what you can do to prove your dedication to the military, you show that you are not giving up or resigning yourself to failure. Instead, you desire to learn from the situation and become a better service member. This attitude of perseverance and self-improvement is highly valued in the military and can help shift the decision-maker’s perspective in your favor.
Helps Build Rapport and Trust
Engaging with the decision-maker on this level can humanize the interaction and foster a sense of mutual respect. It provides an opportunity to rebuild rapport and demonstrate that you are more than the mistake or incident that led to the reprimand. This personal connection can be critical in influencing how they view your potential for rehabilitation and continued service.
Can Influence Future Decisions
Leaders often evaluate your past actions and your potential for future contributions to the organization. Demonstrating your commitment and openness to feedback increases the likelihood that they will view you as a salvageable and valuable team member. This can impact future career decisions, including retention recommendations, promotions, or other opportunities.
The Most Important Question to Ask
When you approach the decision maker, ensure your tone is respectful, and your intent is genuine. Ask something like: “Sir/Ma’am, I take full responsibility for my actions and am committed to learning from this experience. What can I do to prove to you that I have learned from this mistake and that I still have value to contribute to the [Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Coast Guard, Space Force]?” This framing expresses your willingness to improve and invites constructive dialogue that can guide your path forward.
By taking this proactive step, you demonstrate you are serious about your career and your role in the military. It allows you to turn a reprimand or punishment into an opportunity for growth, rebuilding trust, and reaffirming your commitment to serving honorably. Let me know if you'd like help preparing for this conversation!
Conclusion
Responding to a written reprimand in the military can feel daunting, but by adhering to the principle of "Show me, don’t just tell me," you can create a strong, evidence-based response. Use facts, timelines, and references to military regulations to demonstrate your professionalism and commitment to service values. Whether you’re refuting inaccuracies or providing mitigating factors, your response is your chance to take control of the narrative and protect your career.
Remember, every service member can present their side of the story. By approaching the situation with clarity, evidence, and respect, you can turn this challenge into an opportunity to reinforce your dedication to duty and justice.
Getting Legal Advice
Military law is a specialized field with unique rules, regulations, and procedures that differ from civilian law. Experienced attorneys, particularly those with a background in military law, understand the nuances of the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) and administrative processes. They can help you interpret the reprimand, identify potential rights violations, and ensure that the reprimand process adheres to proper procedures.
Responding to a formal reprimand requires careful wording and a strategic approach. An attorney can assist you in drafting a compelling rebuttal that addresses the allegations, provides mitigating evidence, and demonstrates your commitment to military standards. This can significantly influence the outcome, especially if the reprimand is being considered for your permanent personnel record.
Legal professionals offer objective advice during emotionally charged situations. They can help you make informed decisions, avoid unnecessary escalation, and focus on the best course of action for your career and future.
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